Addiction can be in diverse forms from alcohol, drugs to pills. Sex can also be another form of addiction in some people. Nymphomaniacs are people addicted to sex and they struggle on daily basis just like when addicted to alcohol or drugs. It’s a sexual problem that heightens their libido and giving them uncontrollable urge to want to have sex every time. When I say every time, I mean every time, everywhere! They have a higher taste that’s different from the rest of us. It’s difficult for them to keep one relationship at a time. They may crave to be faithful to their spouse but their hyper stimulated sexual organs won’t allow them. It’s common for nymphomaniacs to be sleeping with more than one partner at a time, they just have to satisfy the burning urge inside of them until they get help.
Nymphos are many amongst us, they are all alone in this reality. People assume they are flirts and reckless. But have we ever wondered what they are going through? The every day struggle? They are hurting inside but they can’t talk about it. It’s not the usual problem one can talk casually about. They have no one to talk to, the addiction runs deep and deep until you see them sleeping with people they are not meant to even have anything with. It’s not their fault, it’s the addiction. Nymphomania is a disorder that affects both male and female. But this post will center more on ways we can help and support our women as men.
Are you in a relationship with such a person?
Do you even wonder how you can have a stable relationship with her?
Are you on the verge of dissolving the relationship or union?
This post is for you to know what you can do to help her and maintain a healthy relationship with her.
Don’t judge her
Being judgmental won’t do much good, it will only damage her the more. Being a nympho isn’t something that just occur out of the ordinary. Mostly it happens as a side effect to what she has gone through in her life. Abuse and rape, can be actions that can trigger such consequences uttering her body chemistry in such a way that will be detrimental to her mental and sexual health.
She has a lot that she has gone through already, you judging or blaming her won’t help a bit. She doesn’t need a moral judge as a partner, what she needs is a friend that truly cares and understands what she is going through. You should be able to be that for her. No matter what she tells you about her past, make her feel she is still loved despite all the craziness she had done. Like you got her! Don’t judge her, be her friend!!!
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Give her the listening ear
Many a times, we like to shield emotions as humans. I think it’s easier for us that way. What you don’t want to deal with, you don’t talk about it— or your spouse isn’t allowed to even talk much about it. You say, that’s your past, it’s in the past. You keep on silencing her until there is nothing left to say, she crawls back into her shell. This is damaging to a nympho!
Make her express herself, let her tell you how she feels. She will like to tell you how horny and desperately she wants it. She wants to tell you even how your shirtless neighbor is driving her crazy. How she feels so high even at work and everything she thinks about is just to be fucked!
She wants to tell you all these, that’s what she is feeling. Do you blame her for having such feelings and over the top emotions? Do you think you can hear all that? Do you think you won’t make her feel judged for even thinking that?
If you really love her and you want to help her feel better. Then you have to give her those ears of yours! I know it’s not easy hearing all those from your own woman, but you need to try. Make her understand that there is nothing that she can do that can make you love her less. Make her know that, she needs to know that, she just wants to know if she can trust you enough. She wants to feel safe. Make her feel safe in your haven!
Meet her half way
You know she loves sex right?
So you just have to meet her half way, if you don’t want her to be looking out there desperately looking for every dick and harry hitting her. Then you need to give her right, and her well!
Even despite going one or two rounds may not actually still satisfy her fully, you will be tired by now unless you are on drugs or something. So if you don’t want to exhaust yourself each time, then you know what to do!
Do you know what that is!!!
Just get her a dildo!
That should do!!
So after you have given her about one or two rounds of amazing sex, she is still there panting and craving for more. Slide the dildo to her and make her cum again and again until she is fully satisfied.
Get her help
We are in a part of the world where truth is always shielded in religion. Therapy is the way to go to half of challenges people face. But they tell you to pray!
Prayer works, that’s the honest truth. But you just have to combine this prayer with therapy. To curb this addiction, such person needs a therapist that she can talk to without any barriers.
All these tips should help you as a boyfriend, fiance or even husband to care, support your woman without her feeling like an alien!
Sex addiction is a big issue with little or no awareness at all in this part of the world. Women battling with it need active support system from their family and loved ones.